So I am often asked numerous questions about my kids. There is no way you are a mom of 4? Really how do you have 2 teenagers? Why would you want to be a foster parent? Isn't it hard work being parent to special needs kids? Most people I know in my situation get really frustrated being asked these questions by other people. Not me. I don't mind at all. I see foster care as a mission field, and our family has decided to take in not just foster children, but those that might not otherwise be placed in a foster home and placed in an institution of some kind.
We have found that while the state does not allow foster parents to "proselytize" the children in the care of the welfare system, it doesn't mean that committed foster parents don't have endless opportunities to live out their faith in front of children and adults from various situations. It is an opportunity to really nurture hurting children. It really is a challenge that allows my family the opportunity to put our faith into action. Furthermore, being able to help nurture and encourage these children's parents is just as challenging. However, it can save a family relationship.
Many of the Christian foster care agencies are having to either change their policies or close there doors leaving many children in search of help elsewhere. One thing that my husband and I have come to understand is that God has called each one of us to minister to those who are less fortunate than us. God sees children as a gift. Therefore, it only makes sense that the Church step up and help out these children in need. Foster homes are desperately needed for all ages of children. Being separated from Mom and Dad is traumatic for children. It is equally, or more difficult, for siblings to be separated. If you have the room in your home, lots of love and patience, maybe this could be your ministry. All of the children need families who will give them unconditional love in a structured, nurturing, and spiritually healthy environment.
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